Audience of One...

So, I'm beginning to think that a lot of what i say falls on deaf ears with my friends these days...it's like I talk and nobody cares. That or they listen but want to just get me to do stuff and know I'll follow along. I'm lost and I don't like it, but can't change it. Why does it seem to me that whenever I think I have friends, good friends, that they turn around and backstab me till there's nothing left? I pour my heart out to people and have very few good results, and lots of new holes. I feel like a cork on an aged wine bottle, brittle and full of holes...